It is monotony. Sex with the wife is considered a chore
to dispense with, without any innovation. So how does one overcome sexual
boredom?
Turning to sensuality, with
a dash sensitivity would open an entire corridor of possibilities.
When we think of sex, all
that we think of is our genitals as out sex organs. But there is one unexplored
territory which we have failed to give its due – the skin. Vatsyayana the
pioneer of Kamasutra, laid thick stress on various foreplay techniques. According
to him, Kama (sex) is the enjoyment of the appropriate objects with the help of
the five senses.
Try different postures,
unusual positions for intercourse, diversity in time, place or types of sexual
activity. Try during any suitable time of the day, when you feel refreshing and
relaxed.
Satin sheets, lacy lingerie,
scented candles, soft romantic music, close dancing, sharing a succulent meal
etc definitely add a zing. Discover partner’s erogenous zones. You will in the
process discover a new person in your partner, who will appreciate your
willingness to work on giving pleasure and in turn will switch on her/his
fertile mind and reward you with a new vista of gratification.
-Dr.
Narayana Reddy
